Privacy Policy

Last updated September 29, 2026. Replaces the notice dated November 14, 2022.

This notice explains what Socialight, LLC ("Socialight", "we", "us") collects when you use the Socialight mobile app, the socialight.app website, and the text messages we send on behalf of our users (together, the "Service"), why we collect it, and the choices you have. Questions: privacy@socialight.app.

1. Who we are

Socialight, LLC is a Connecticut limited liability company based in Norwalk, Connecticut, United States. We are the controller of the personal information described here.

2. What we collect

3. How we use it

To run the Service: sign you in, deliver invitations and replies to the people you chose, show who's in, send the notifications and text messages described below, apply your preferences (snooze, blocked numbers, nearby radius), prevent abuse (rate limits, spam and fraud detection), and fix problems. We do not sell personal information, we do not use it for advertising, and we do not build profiles for marketing.

4. Text messages (SMS)

Socialight sends two kinds of text message:

Opting out. Reply STOP (or UNSUBSCRIBE, CANCEL, END, QUIT) to any message and we will never text that number again unless you reply START. Reply HELP for help. The link in every invitation also offers "Stop texts from this sender" to mute one person. Message and data rates may apply.

No sharing of SMS consent. Phone numbers collected for text messaging, and any consent or opt-in information relating to text messaging, are not sold, rented, or shared with third parties or affiliates for their marketing purposes, and are used solely to send the messages described here.

5. Who sees what

6. How long we keep it

Each kind of data has a fixed retention period. Nothing is kept "just in case".

WhatKept forThen
An invitation and everything attached to it: recipients, replies, attachments, live-location history, private links, and our provider's copy of the text messages30 days after the invitation ends (expiry or cancellation)Permanently deleted from our database, our file storage and our text-message provider
Your account: phone number, name, preferences, blocked numbersUntil you delete your account (Settings → Delete my account)Deleted immediately, together with everything keyed to it, including texts you received
The list of your contacts we keep to name people to youReplaced on every sync; forgotten 90 days after your last syncRemoved
Counters of how many numbers you looked up for friend-findingAbout two monthsExpire on their own
Your "stop texting me" choicesUntil you text START or ask usKept so we honour them
Server logs (no phone numbers, message text or private links)30 daysRolled off by our hosting provider
Crash diagnostics (device model, OS, app version, technical trace — no phone numbers, contacts or message content)90 daysExpire at our crash-reporting provider
Feedback you sent us (your words plus app version, platform, device model, language, time zone)1 yearDeleted by us; sooner if you delete your account
Database backupsOur provider's point-in-time window (a few days)Roll off automatically
Records under a legal holdFor the duration of the holdThen the normal periods apply

7. Your rights and choices

You can review and change your information in the app, delete your account at any time (Settings → Account), revoke contacts or location permissions in your phone's settings, stop text messages as described above, and block any sender. Depending on where you live (for example the EU/UK under the GDPR, or California under the CCPA/CPRA) you may have rights to access, correct, delete, or port your personal information, to restrict or object to processing, and to complain to a supervisory authority. To exercise any right, email privacy@socialight.app; we will verify the request using your phone number and respond within the time the law allows. We do not discriminate against you for exercising your rights, and we do not sell or "share" personal information as those terms are defined in California law.

8. Children

Socialight is for people 18 and older. We do not knowingly collect information from anyone under 18; if you believe we have, contact us and we will delete it.

9. Security

Data is encrypted in transit; phone numbers are encrypted at rest and looked up only by keyed hash; private links are unguessable and expire with the invitation; access to production systems is limited and logged. No method is perfect, so please keep your phone and sign-in codes to yourself.

10. International transfers

We operate from the United States and our providers may process data there. Where required, transfers are covered by appropriate safeguards such as standard contractual clauses.

11. Changes

We will post updates here with a new "last updated" date and, for material changes, notify you in the app.

12. Contact

Socialight, LLC, Norwalk, Connecticut, USA · privacy@socialight.app · +1 (855) 259-4391